we also used to give the kids a grade/age appropriate work book and make them do pages when they where bad...
but so that they did not associate school type work with being bad we also made it so that if they wanted something special " x " number of pages = " x " number reward... like time on the playstation or watching tv/movie
normally those activities are reserved for the weekend so if they want to have the "special stuff" they had to make the effort to get what they want.
the thing about the xmass money is also is that if they are not at the money level they cannot play on the playstation or watch movies/tv
the boys start off with $100 each
we started that the 1st week of november and the eldest was at $50 by the end of the 1st weekend lol... both of them are now back up to $100 so they are now on the playstation as i type
but with my kids... spanking only worked when they wore diapers cause it was the shock factor not a pain thing and corners NEVER worked
but so that they did not associate school type work with being bad we also made it so that if they wanted something special " x " number of pages = " x " number reward... like time on the playstation or watching tv/movie
normally those activities are reserved for the weekend so if they want to have the "special stuff" they had to make the effort to get what they want.
the thing about the xmass money is also is that if they are not at the money level they cannot play on the playstation or watch movies/tv
the boys start off with $100 each
we started that the 1st week of november and the eldest was at $50 by the end of the 1st weekend lol... both of them are now back up to $100 so they are now on the playstation as i type
but with my kids... spanking only worked when they wore diapers cause it was the shock factor not a pain thing and corners NEVER worked
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